A boundary is a real or imaginary line that marks the limit, edge, or separation between two things, places, or people, defining where one ends and another begins, protecting personal space, and setting acceptable limits for behaviors, interactions, and expectations. It is a dividing line that not only separates but creates opportunity for us to set standards, rules, and limitations to guard our peace of mind, heart, and soul.
 
Boundaries are not only personal, but they are also biblical and spiritual. God Himself has boundaries! Boundaries are His design. Boundaries were established by God, exemplified by Jesus when He walked the earth, and are supported by Scripture. God gives us spiritual boundaries that serve as standards and structures for holy and righteous living, stewardship of life, healthy relationships, and protection. He gives us countless Scriptures in His Word that direct us to set boundaries along with instructions on how to achieve them. When based and built on the foundation and standard of God’s Word, boundaries help us to govern ourselves accordingly.
 
Boundaries define our identity, personal responsibility, expectations, and limitations with others. Boundaries lead us to take ownership and responsibility for our overall well-being. They benefit our lives in three powerful ways:
 
(1). Boundaries enforce God’s authority and sovereignty in our lives, help us to live and function within the constraints of God’s Word and will, and protect us against fleshly and worldly influences.
 
(2). Boundaries set parameters and limits for acceptable behavior in relationships and from those around us. They direct their attitude and actions in our presence, space, and lives.
 
(3). Boundaries draw the line! They set the stage and standard for how we allow ourselves to be treated and regarded by others, what we tolerate and accept from others, and the expectations that will be enforced in our lives.
 
A boundary is that defining and dividing line that protects our space and peace. Boundaries are healthy and necessary confines that will protect every aspect and area of our life—spiritually, mentally, emotionally, physically, and interpersonally. Boundaries draw the line in the sand by communicating our limits, standards, expectations, the need for respect and space in these areas, and how we will respond if that line is crossed. Boundaries are not restricted rules but spiritual tools that by the guidance of the Holy Spirit, will help us to guard our treasure of peace and “heart with all diligence, for out if springs the issues of life.”—Proverbs 4:23
 
Set boundaries! And do not let anyone cross them.
 
 
—LaTonya D. Williams